divorce sucks

divorce really does suck. it has one big upside - you get rid of your ex. but not really. she's still there to pester you and make your life as miserable as possible. then there's the inevitable loss of relationships with friends and family members. loss of routine. loss of an intimate family life. loss of lifestyle. loss of money. it's pretty much a lose/lose proposition.

on the other hand, another year with her and i woulda seriously run myself into the ground and been fit for nothing but grass fertilizer, so i guess it has it's upsides.